10/30/06

When I was struggling with death - old letter


someday,2000

Dear candy, I hope u're fine now. How is your pains and how is your respiration. My believe is that everything will be fine in few days and again we will be swinging our hands on the air praying god for the well being of our love life.At least we've got god with ourselves, who could help us in many aspects. We will never loose and I hope our prayers won't go in vain. my budu all my blessings are for you, all my love all and my happiness are for you. Every time my heartbeats it calls out your name archu.

Every time, every moment, and every second becomes an adventorous moment for me. It's really hard to stay without u. I was habituated to see your face daily which used to make me jolly and you know I used to get another type of strength which really used to blossom my heart and rejoices my inner strength. I'm still in a want to hold u in my arms and just hide u from all these cruel things. I'd like to make u warm and safe in my arms.I promise that I'll make u sleep in my arms, eat with my hands, bath with my hands, comb your hairs(usuallywhich I do in the college) I'll wash your clothes,I'll cook for you. I'm sure that, I'll do all the things that comes to your way and will surely do help u in every aspect of your life.

This is the greatest examination of your life. It takes time but , u should be very much careful, you don't have to loose your appetite, instead you should increase it daily and should have to take full rest leaving behind all the works.Health is wealth, so be sure to take c are of it, then there comes the time to think about studies and other issues. You should always be in a jolly mood- I mean no worries. Your parents are there and I'm always by your side. When ever u want to catch me just close your eyes u'll find me besides you trying to comfort you at ease.
Medicines do not tastes good and it's for the betterment of your health you should be regular and punctual in taking medicines. Do not worry coz everything will be fine as our love will keep us alive.

always & forever, Lanky

10/26/06

People Who Achieve Success....


- They have confidence in themselves
- They have a very strong sense of purpose
- They never have excuses
- They always strive towards perfection
- They never consider the idea of failing
- They work extremely hard towards their goals
- They know who they are
- They understand their weaknesses
as well as their strong points
- They can accept and benefit from criticism
- They know when to defend what they are doing
- They are creative
- They are not afraid to be a little different
- They look for innovative solutios
that will enable them to achieve their dreams

10/15/06

my 8th love anniversary


हुन त हाम्रा बा आमा ले त Marriage anniversary मनाउथे तर हामी चाँही Love anniversary मनाउछौ होतनी अब बिहे गर्ने उमेर हुँदा सम्म बिहे नगरे पछि अब बिधी बिधान त जसरि भए पनि पुराउनु पर्‍यो।

अब भबिश्य को बारेमा केही सोचोऔ हाम्रा बा आमाले त सबै छोराछोरीलाई Bording school मा पढाएर, घर बनाएर , इज्जत का साथ लाईफ बिताउनु भो , तर के हामी पनि उहि कुरा हाम्रा छोरा छोरीलाई दिन सक्छम ? मलाई त ११ जना छोरा छोरी चाहिन्छ आम्मै कसरी पाल्नु बा ढाढ नै सेकिन्छ फेरी आजकाल का केटा केटी कम्ती का हुन्छन र?

अब घर बनाउने कुरा गरम , करोड घटि त घर आउँदैन, अब तो करोड कहाँ बाट लाउने हो , कस्को भित्ता फोर्ने हो ?
गाडी त चाँहीयो नै जती जाम भए पनि, महँगो पेट्रोल कसरी हाल्ने हो ?

हो बा म त दुई हात जोडी नमस्कार गर्छु मेरा बा आमालाई र मेरा boyfriend का बा आमा लाइ पनि , अनि छिमेकी का बा आमा लाइ पनि , वडा कठिनाई काम गरेकोमा

आब इज्जतका साथ कसरी बस्ने हो , कसैलाई कसैको मतलब छैन , इज्जत कस्लाई देखौने हो ?

अब धेरै के लेख्नु जती लेखे पनि उस्तै हो । जे होला, तेही टर्ला

Lets not worry my darling, together we can do anything. My love and my wishes are always with you. I am pretty sure that we will cross 100 anniversary with full of love and happiness.

10/13/06

Personality


It is difference thing to different people.Personality is like fragrance to the flower.

It is not a beauty tells about how personality we are.Ofcourse some bit of beauty will give bit of personality.

What we have inside makes us beautiful.It may be attitude or behaviour or useful character.

We have good attitude and we fly like bird in the air.In the sense,we enjoy atmost freedom in our life.

What makes us to fly peacefully amid of diffculties,it may be our good character.
Many research going on about personality.My point is be better than previous self.
Grow everyday.James alan told"My greatest discovery of this generation is human being can change their lives by changing their attitude.

There comes a time when you must stand alone.You must feel confident enough within yourself to follow your own dreams.You must be willing to make sacrifices.You must be capable of changing and rearranging your priorities so that your final goal can be achieved.Sometimes, familiarity and comfort need to be challenged.There are times when you must take a few extra chances and create your own realities.Be strong enough to at least try to make your life better.Be confident enough that you won't settle for a compromise just to get by.Appreciate yourself by allowing yourself the opportunities to grow, develop, and find your true sense of purpose in this life.Don't stand in someone else's shadow when it's your sunlight that should lead the way.

-By voiceofsekar

10/12/06

Positive Attitude and Thinking


Positive thinking is a mental attitude that sees the bright side of life.

People with a positive frame of mind think about possibilities, growth, expansion and success. They expect happiness, health, love and good relationships. They think in terms of 'I can', 'I am able' and 'I will succeed'.

Real and effective positive thinking requires that you focus on positive thoughts and positive emotions, and also take positive action.

How can you develop this state of mind? You can do so by reading inspiring and motivating literature, and through visualization, affirmations and meditation. Explore this website and you will find many articles, information and guidance about these subjects.

Positive attitude manifests in the following ways:

- Positive thinking.
- Constructive thinking.
- Creative thinking.
- Expecting success.
- Optimism.
- Motivation to accomplish your goals.
- Being inspired.
- Choosing happiness.
- Not giving up.
- Looking at failure and problems as blessings in disguise.
- Believing in yourself and in your abilities.
- Displaying self-esteem and confidence.
- Looking for solutions.
- Seeing opportunities.

A positive attitude leads to happiness and success and can change your whole life. If you look at the bright side of life, your whole life becomes filled with light. This light affects not only you and the way you look at the world, but also your whole environment and the people around you. If it is strong enough, it becomes contagious.


The benefits of a positive attitude:

- Helps achieving goals and attaining success.
- Success achieved faster and more easily.
- More happiness.
- More energy.
- Greater inner power and strength.
- The ability to inspire and motivate yourself and others.
- Fewer difficulties encountered along the way.
- The ability to surmount any difficulty.
- Life smiles at you.
- People respect you.

Negative attitude says: you cannot achieve success.
Positive attitude says: You can achieve success.

If you have been exhibiting a negative attitude and expecting failure and difficulties, it is now the time to change the way you think. It is time to get rid of negative thoughts and behavior and lead a happy and successful life. Why not start today? If you have tried and failed, it only means that you have not tried enough.

Developing a positive attitude that will lead you to happiness and success:

- Choose to be happy.
- Look at the bright side of life.
- Choose to be and stay optimistic.
- Find reasons to smile more often.
- Have faith in yourself and in the Power of the Universe.
- Contemplate upon the futility of negative thinking and worries.
- Associate yourself with happy people.
- Read inspiring stories.
- Read inspiring quotes.
- Repeat affirmations that inspire and motivate you.
- Visualize only what you want to happen.
- Learn to master your thoughts.
- Learn concentration and meditation.

10/8/06

love, respect & worship


I was eighteen years of age when love opened my eyes with its magic rays and touched my spirit for the first time with its fiery fingers. He is the first man who awakened my spirit with his love and led me into the garden of high affection, where days pass like dreams and nights like weddings.

He is the one who taught me to respect and worship the love. He is the one who first sang to me the poetry of the real life.

I heard LOVE whispered into my ears through his lips. My Life was a coma, empty like that of Eve’s Paradise, when I saw him standing before me like a flaming light. He is the Adam of my heart who filled it with secrets and wonders and made me understand the meaning of life.

He is lovely in his ignorance, worthy in his simplicity, and strong in his weakness.
If I could pull down the rainbow I‘d write his name with it and put it back and let everybody know how colorful life is with him.

10/7/06

Quotes E - book


This e-book is filled with over 150 quotes from all times and from all over the world.

May the quotes educate, inspire and motivate you to new levels. Wishing you the best in your ventures!