Glorious Friendship of Prashant Tamang and Amit Paul

I am very impressed with Prashant Tamang and Amit Paul’s friendship though they are competitors, they have maintained very good friendship.

The Unmatchable Gift : Friendship

Prashant Tamang and Amit Paul together with the winning trophy…

A real winner for both is the friendship and bond they have managed to get…

Proud Owners of SX4
Prashant Tamang and Amit Paul were rewarded a Maruti Suzuki SX4….

Friends Forever....

Prashant Tamang with crossed Khukuri in his Nepali Topi
and garlanded with khada.

Imperfections

An elderly Chinese woman had two large pots, each hung
on the ends of a pole which she carried across her neck.

One of the pots had a crack in it while the other pot was
perfect and always delivered a full portion of water.

At the end of the long walks from the stream to the house,
the cracked pot arrived only half full.

For a full two years this went on daily, with the woman
bringing home only one and a half pots of water.

Of course, the perfect pot was proud of its accomplishments.

But the poor cracked pot was ashamed of its own imperfection,
and miserable that it could only do half of what it had been made to do.

After two years of what it perceived to be bitter failure, it spoke
to the woman one day by the stream "I am ashamed of myself,
because this crack in my side causes water to leak out all the
way back to your house."

The old woman smiled, "Did you notice that there are flowers on your side of the path, but not on the other pot's side?"

"That's because I have always known about your flaw, so I planted flower seeds on your side of the path, and every day while we walk back, you water them."

"For two years I have been able to pick these beautiful
flowers to decorate the table.

Without you being just the way you are, there would not be
this beauty to grace the house."

Each of us has our own unique flaw. But it's the cracks and
flaws we each have that make our lives together so very
interesting and rewarding.

You've just got to take each person for what they
are and look for the good in them.

Story Source : bobby

Smiling to your problems

Now a days we are having lots of problem in Nepal like Deepak ji said in his blog " These days, traffic jam is sucking us. We cannot reach anywhere in time. Our road network cannot accommodate the overwhelming numbers of vehicles. But, who cares? The government has other big fishes to fry: transition, peace process, constituent assembly election etc. Who cares for Ram, Syam and Hari?

The reason I embarked on a bus is: my motorbike has run out of petrol and I don't have time to stay in hours long queues. The petrol problem is only the tip of the iceberg. Your cell phone doesn't work because there is always no network and even if by chance you got the line, you can't understand the other person's voice. You will be greeted by garbage on the road; it hasn't
been picked since a week or two. Light goes of in every weekend. Your apartment does not have running water. The list is endless. "

I have got very beautiful article from the book “Life Skills” published by unicef. Thanks to my dad for this book.

Smiling to your problems

When we encounter a problem, our instinctive reaction is to run away from it. We simply blame others or blame it on fate and we usually react negatively: Gosh! hate it ! I an so unfortunate, I am stuck..

Life is made up of problem. Living is an unending journey of solving problems. When you solve one problem, and find yourself soon caught in another problems, you are not back at the starting point. While dealing with each and every problem. You are developing your capacity and gaining confidence in tackling life's varying situations. In the journey of growth, our environment also changes accordingly, and new problems mirrors the higher level of knowledge and competence we gain from tackling earlier problems.

If we have never taken actions to solve our problem, our ability remains at the same level, and we will never be able to evolve. Problem-solving provides human beings with opportunities to evolve, and develop his or her full potential.

Learn to live with your problems- if there is no solution now.

Sometimes, we cannot resolve the problem at hand because they are associated with powerful external factors over which we have no control. we may be worried or frustrated, but there is no way to solve them given the circumstances. A typical example is war. For instance, thousand of Jews were sent to death camps by the German Nazis during the Second World War. There was no chance of escape at all. It was difficult to survive the daily ordeal, including hard labour, disease and starvation in the death camps, where the aim was to torture, and eventually extinguish all the jewish people. Many of those arrested and detained in the camp could only live with the hope that their lives would be saved when the Nazis lost the war.

Cought in such a situation, the best we can do is put the problem aside for the moment and move on to other things we can do. We are not escaping from the problem, but waiting for an opportune moment to arise that will bring a solution. We have to learn to live with such problems without stressing ourselves out, or sinking into depression. The ability to do it requires great courage and patience.

Tackling problems involves the use of our mind. The process enhances our capacity to solve greater problems.

तीजको लहर आयो बरि लै......

धेरै भयो लोकतन्त्र आ'को नेपालमा..
खै त आको प्रचन्डजी शान्ती नेपालमा..

आज झट्ट टि भि खोल्दा पशुपतिमा यो गीत गाएर आईमाईहरु नाची रहेका थिए । अब पहिलाको जस्तो शासु - अमाजुको खटन पटनको गीत गाउन छाडेछन अब त लोकतन्त्र, सम्बिधान सभा, आफ्नो हक अधिकार जागरण र देशकै बारेमा गीत गाएर छम छमी नाच्दै थिए।

जता हेर्यो रातै रातो, अहो पानी पनि नखै कस्तो नाच्न सकेको हुनपनी यो तीज भन्ने प्रोग्राम कती राम्रो सँग डिजाइन गरेको है राती १२ बजे सम्मा दर खाने जस्तै पुरी, खिर, तरकारी, अचार, मासु, मिठाइ मज्जा ले खाने त्यसपछी भोली पल्ट त पेटलाई जे होस् आराम नै हुन्छ। उता बर्त बसेको जस्तो पनि हुने, श्रीमानको कल्यान पनि हुने, भगवान प्रति आस्था पनि देखिने अनी एक्दिन भोकै बस्दा पेटको इन्जीन पनि सफा हुने क्या ग्रायन्ड डिजाइन गरेका रैछ्न् है।

आफु नेवार भएकोले कहिले पनि तीजको बर्त बसेको छैन र मेरो मुमा, हजुरमुमा ले पनि कहिले पनि तीजको बर्त बसेको थाह पाइन । जहाँ सम्म मलाई थाहा छ धेरै जसो नेवारहरु तीजमा बर्त बस्दैनन् । हर साल टि.भि हेर्दा महिलाहरुलाई किन बर्त बस्नु भएको भन्दा आफ्नो लोग्ने को सुस्वास्थ्य र दिर्घायुको कामना गर्दै बसेको भन्छन । बिहे नगरेकाले राम्रो पती पाउन बर्त बसेको भन्छन। अहो तेसो भए त नेवारका लोग्ने रोगी र अल्पायुनै हुन पर्ने अनी बर्त नबस्नेका केटी हरुले कुरुप र अयोग्य बर पाउन पर्ने।

तर पनि भगवती पार्वती देखि चली आएको चलन, आफ्नो रितिरिवज बचाउनु सबैको कर्तब्य हुन्छ।
एउटा विश्वाश अनी आस्थाले राम्रो सँग प्रार्थना गरेपछी मनको कामना अवस्य पुरा हुन्छ।
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Make a Habit of Doing It Now

Story

The little boy who says when I become a big boy, I will do this and this and I will be happy.

- And when he becomes a big boy he says, when I finish college and do this and this and I will be happy.

- And when he finishes college he says when I get my first job and do his and this I will be happy.

- And when he gets his first job he says when I get married and do this and this and then I will be happy.


- And when he gets married he says when the kids get out of school and I do this and this I will be I happy.

- And when the kids get out of school, he says when I retire and do this and this, I will be happy.

- And when he retires what does he see? He sees life has just gone by in front of his eyes.

What is the moral of this story?

Let's make the best of now and utilize the present to the fullest.

What time is it and where are we?
The answer is now and we are here.

The message is not that we don't need to plan for the future. The message is that we do need to plan for the future. If we utilize our present to its fullest, we are sowing the seeds for a better future automatically. If you want to build a positive attitude, learn the phrase, "do it now" .

Source Book: You Can Win

भो! अती भयो !

निर्दोष नेपाली मरिनको लागि ईराक जान नपर्ने भयो, नेपाल आमाकै काखमा बिना कुनै दोष मरिनु पर्ने भयो। कठै आफ्नै सन्ततिको रगतले लतपतिदा अनी आफ्नै सन्तानका अङ्गका चोक्टा चोक्टा निस्केर छरपस्ट हुँदा अनी आफ्नै शरीर सन्तानको रगतको आहालमा डुब्दा कती क्रोधित हुन्छिन होला, कती धिक्कारीन होला, आफ्नै सन्तानले आफ्नै छाती माथि रगतको होली खेल्दा कती आफ्नै कोखलाई सरापिन होला। आज फेरि हामि स्तब्ध भएका छौ।बर्षौ पछी सुनौलो बिहानिको पर्खाइमा थियौ, हाम्रा आशाका लहरहरु मेटिएका थिएनन, धैर्यका बाधहरु फुटेका थिएनन , बस् चुप चाप सहेर बसेका थियौ तर अकस्मात् सुनौलो बिहानीको प्रतिक्ष्यामा रहेका हामीले फेरी अर्को कालो दिन देख्न पर्‍यो अब फेरी एक चोटि त्रास, रिस अनी आक्रोसित् भएका छौ ।

भो ! भो ! अती भयो !!!!

सधैंको बम पड्केको आवाजले कानका जाली फुटी सके, कराउदा कराउदा आवाज पनि सुकी सके, यो बिजुलिको अन्धकारमा बस्दा बस्दा हामी आँखा पनि देख्न छाडि सक्यौ। हरेक कुरको लागि भागम भाग गर्दा गर्दै खुटा पनि दुखी सक्यो । भो ! भो ! अती भयो !!!! अब नेपाल आमालेनै सहनै नसक्ने गरेर अत्याचार र अन्नायले तहस नहस भयो। बुद्धका उपदेशहरु टायर सँगै जलाइए, सगरमाथाका उचाइ सधैंको हत्या हिन्साले बिस्व सामु झुक्न पर्‍यो।

सधैं सधैं नेपाल भनी फुलाउने यो छाती पनि अब दुख्न थाल्यो।
भो ! भो ! अती भयो !!!! अब शान्ती सँग बाँच्न चाहन्छौ।

Peace!!!!